How to Find a Mentor For Career Success

iStock 000009172087XSmall 150x150 How to Find a Mentor For Career SuccessI replied to a question this week on LinkedIn and thought I’d share my thoughts with you on the topic of mentoring. Here is a short excerpt from the comment and subsequent question submitted:

“I don’t know how to navigate the professional world. It is like I am an outsider looking in. As an African American woman, I don’t have any willing connections in my family. I am actively networking, taking classes to gain new skills, writing blogs, and interning; this way I can groom myself into the professional I want to be…”

My answer was as follows:

Thank you for your note & for expressing your challenges so honestly. I will share that I have been mentored and I have mentored. In most cases where I was on the receiving end, I actively pursued the relationship. There have been both good AND bad experiences on either side – I chose to learn from both.

One of the conversations that came out of the recent Women of Color Career Success telesummit I hosted focused on the topic of mentoring and where to find them. There were 3 strategies highlighted from the panel:

1) Pursue mentoring relationships with people who already at a level for which you are aspiring – seeking a combination of mentors with similar backgrounds as you AND those who can share a completely different perspective;

2) Peer-to-peer mentoring – reach out to positive, motivated colleagues and others within your field for idea/resource sharing; and

3) “remote” mentoring – seek out books, presentations, and media that may have messages you can apply to your own situation for growth. If something really appeals to you, consider contacting the author, etc to let them know how their ideas have helped you – social media really opens possibilities here. You never know until you try.

“Mentoring” was very loosely defined in each case but the ultimate message was that you can learn from just about anyone’s experiences.

Lastly I will add these tips:
* Don’t be intimidated to ask anyone you have identified as a possible mentor for you. The worst they can do is say no. * You should not expect someone else to invest in you what you don’t invest in yourself and others. Definitely look at ways you can mentor and give back. * And if you happen to run into that not-so-great experience, you can learn lessons from that too. It just may be “what not to do”.

I hope others will chime in and offer their advice and perspectives on your questions.

Best success to you, Tanya

What are your thoughts around mentoring and what advice would you offer someone for finding a mentor?


About the Author: Tanya Smith of Be Promotable helps ambitious professional women of color develop a competitive personal brand strategy for the career of their dreams. To get instant access to her free special report on Simple Steps High Performing Sistas Need to Know for Career Success stop by and visit http://www.bepromotable.com.

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The Storm Always Passes

iStock 000007572431XSmall 150x150 The Storm Always PassesThis morning I had a battle with the weather, driving in on my way to my corporate office.  I make this drive pretty frequently, and so fortunately I knew just what potholes to miss, and what part of the road to linger on while the rain came down in heavy torrents.

Things started to get nastier and nastier when I realized I would have to slow down to about 15 mph in order to keep the water from kicking up into my windshield and blinding me.   It felt like forever when I was in the middle of it, but it probably only lasted less than 10 minutes.

When I came out of the storm, everything was so calm it took me by surprise.  I called my assistant at the office to ask her, “is it pouring down raining there or am I the one with the big clouds over my head out here”?  Guess what?  When she looked at the weather map, the cloud was sitting exactly over the spot I’d just come through, but nowhere else.  She described it as a “big dark green circle with lots of pockets of light green sitting ‘splat’ right on top of your city”.

I guess you’re probably wondering why I’m writing all of this.  Here it is – many times in our work and professional lives, we go through storms like this.   We feel like we are the only ones in the whole world being picked on, given the undeserved performance review, subject to the crazy boss, being stuck in a bad-fit career.  It seems like we will never get out of that situation, right?  Like it’s taking forever for things to change.

But then the clouds begin to break and we realize we had the tools to navigate through all along.  All it took was a little prayer, slowing down to recognize the signs, and staying in the best lane.

Same with your professional career.  Whatever you may be going through – whether it’s work related or personal – remember that the storm always passes.

To your professional success, Tanya

About the Author: Tanya Smith of Be Promotable helps professional women of color develop a powerful personal brand strategy to be positioned for the opportunity of their dreams. To get instant access to her free special report on Simple Tips High Performing Sistas Need To Know For Career Success stop by and visit http://www.bepromotable.com.

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Audio from Guest Expert Denise Cooper

Be Promotable is sponsoring an event this month from 8/30-9/2 called the Women of Color Career Success Telesummit.  We’ll have ten amazing presenters who are career and business experts, coaches, speakers and authors share with you their wisdom on how to succeed in your career without losing your values and with clarity of purpose.

One of the really great things about this telesummit is that we will have a chance to meet great people like Denise Cooper of Coach HR at www.coachhr.com.

I asked Denise to record a short interview with me to answer :  “What is a top challenge for multicultural women trying to advance into leadership positions?”

Here’s Denise’s answer and a little taste of the kind of insight we will enjoy at the telesummit:

denisecooper 144x150 Audio from Guest Expert Denise Cooper

Denise wants you to know that she offers a great assessment tool called the Hartman Value Profile.

Some of the many benefits of the Hartman Value Profile are that it:

  • identifies personal strengths and areas for growth that individuals can build upon
  • helps people better understand themselves and others
  • enhances workplace performance and teamwork effectiveness
  • facilitates the development of a “values-based” culture that supports and fosters the development of an “ethics-based” culture within organizations
  • provides managers with a valid and reliable instrument to assist them in evaluating employees and prospective employees
  • helps managers make better hiring decisions and reduce costly employee turnover

Stop by her website at www.coachhr.com and check out Denise’s offerings.  And remember, there’s still time to join us for the Women of Color Career Success Telesummit.  Find out more at www.womenofcolorcareersuccess.com.

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5 Things They Don’t Want You To Know About the Corporate Game

iStock 000008209293XSmall 5 Things They Dont Want You To Know About the Corporate GameThis past week I recorded a teleseminar to talk about 5 key points you should be consciously aware of that are misspoken quite often in the media right now.  If you’d like to hear this in audio format, you can listen here or read the article below.

Finding a job, doing well on the job, and moving into a better job are all part of “career management 101″ and they require continuous learning about the world of work, as well as an acute awareness of your own specific skills –especially during what we keep hearing is a jobless economic recovery.

Here are 5 jewels of information you need to know to manage your career in today’s work place:

1. If you are currently stuck in a job, transitioning, trying to get ahead, you will likely be in this position again one day – yes, in spite of the fact that we still have some companies asking about your loyalty.  The situation we have all been experiencing in today’s economy will likely change the entire course and character of our work structure for this and the next generations.I’m not going to spend a lot of time talking about depressing statistics.  I did read recently, however, that temp jobs increased by 21% between Oct 2009 and around May/June 2010. This could be a sign that as companies laid off workers, they made decisions to hire more temporary workers to control health care benefits costs, and flexibility of movement.  We are no longer in an age of permanent hiring, in case you have not seen the writing on the wall.  Combine this with the fast paced change of technology and you will understand the need to constantly revisit what skills are necessary and what jobs may need to be warped into something entirely different.

How have you kept up with your career skills?  Would you be ready tomorrow to interview?  If I asked you to email me a resume right now, would you be able to send me what I need, not just a standard, one size fits all documetn? Recently, I talked with a colleague who was preparing for an interview – we’ll call him Bill.  Bill was preparing for an interview for a next level position.  He had not interviewed in several years, but thought because his technical skills & track record at work were solid, that would be enough.  It wasn’t.  He did not take my advice and get current interview trends, nor did he update his inside resume to reflect all the things he thought they’d already know.  Keeping current on practical trends in interviewing and resume formatting could be a valuable hip-pocket tool for you.

They also suggest that workers are not skilled to meet the needs hiring managers have, and even that some of the more mid-skilled, mid-wage jobs are not appearing as desirable.  If you are someone who has competed for a job within the last 6 months and you knew you had the right skills but you weren’t picked because you couldn’t articulate them , this means perhaps it is time you took a solid assessment of your current personal brand (how you are perceived), your top strengths, your passion, and your ability to think like a leader – how well are you marketing what it is you can actually do?  Have you formalized your personal branding statement to clearly communicate your value as a worker and a professional?

2.  We keep hearing there are no jobs?  I have heard something different – there are jobs out there.  An article in this week’s Wall Street Journal Online talks about the fact that many employers are having trouble filling positions despite the high unemployment rate.  They reference that one challenge is that it’s tougher for qualified workers to actually move where the jobs are, knowing that their home may not sell or that their spouse may not find employment in the new location.

But they also suggest that workers are not skilled to meet the needs the hiring managers have, and finally – some of the more mid-skilled, mid-wage jobs are not appearing as desirable.  If you are someone who has competed for a job within the last 6 months and you knew you had the right skills but you weren’t picked because you couldn’t articulate them , this means you may need to sit down and take a solid assessment of your current personal brand (how you are perceived), your top strengths, your passion, and your ability to think like a leader – how well are you marketing what it is you can actually do?

3.  In spite of what you’ve heard – I’ve even misspoken this myself – the old “who you know gets you hired” still holds true. Now you’ve heard lately it’s more important now “who knows you”,  especially with the advent of social media and online networking but be very clear – who you know can determine what calls you can make when you need champion to influence a hiring or advancement decision.  How many of you are highly qualified, professional workers – great at what you do, top performers in your role, yet you keep being overlooked for the promotion or for the career selection?  What does your circle of influence look like?  How often have you reached out to build new relationships? How do you know when to weed out negative influencers in your circle?

4.  You can create wealth while working for someone else…just not relying on that company’s $$. You have heard about people starting businesses for themselves and I have to admit, I don’t buy into the theory that everyone is born with an inner entrepreneurial mind.  I believe some people require good ole’ fashioned training and help.  With the right tools, resources, mentors, and drive, you might either start a side business, learn to generate income through affiliate marketing, or create multiple passive income streams for yourself.  Ultimately, one of the keys to building wealth is creating passive income strategies and positioning yourself the right way to create financial independence.

5.  They are just as afraid as you are of the competitive state of the workforce. Employers are scrambling      around right now trying to figure out who will take the place of some of their tip-top seats.  It’s called succession management.  Have you heard the word retention thrown around in your workplace? That’s because there is a struggle to keep top performers who are still employed in their current seats.  I read an article July 2010 by Talent Management magazine that said out of 3000 individuals surveyed, 52% employees reported they were approached by other employers with a possible job offer within the past 12 months.  Employers are competing against each other for the top performers.  What was the highest factor in helping to attract & retain good performers?  “(their) research clearly shows that (career) development pays in terms of engagement and retention — both for the individual and the organization”.

Career development is key to creating an opportunity for you to survive and prosper in the work economy today. Consider ways you can enhance your skills to better manage the direction your career is heading now and into the future.

Don’t miss tremendous career management and leadership development training resources at  the upcoming Women of Color Career Success Telesummit 2010 http://womenofcolorcareersuccess.com.  This is a 3.5 day telesummit with speakers who are top notch experts in career & business presenting critical career success strategies to you, answering questions, providing resources that will help you position yourself as the ultimate career professional in whatever field you want.  Seats are limited.  Get in now!

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Anatomy of a Personal Brand Strategy – Part I

iStock 000006712763XSmall 150x150 Anatomy of a Personal Brand Strategy    Part IWhen you are doing the work to clearly identify your brand – or the overall collection of perceptions that you want others to have about you – it may not be as simple as jotting down a few notes on a memo pad.  Coming up with a personal brand strategy that describes the irresistible, brilliant you can take some work, but once you have it, you can apply the pieces to everything you communicate – e.g. resume, interview remarks, online media, etc.

Below, I will share with you some of the components I used in developing my own brand marketing statement.

Here are the first five concepts to focus on with a brief definition of each, and an example taken from my own personal brand library:

  1. Objective - what outcome are you trying to achieve for yourself or for your target audience (e.g. To develop highly successful, professional women of color to be competitors for advanced leadership positions.)
  2. Core message – the primary mindset that you want anyone who comes in contact with you to adopt  (e.g. You can successfully advance your career when you increase your brand visibility in a smart, authentic, and consistent way.)
  3. Target audience – who do you want to share the message with (e.g. Professional women of color, age 30-55,  seeking career advancement, career change, or business start-up.)  **Later, we can talk about who the ideal client is for you within this target – yes, there is a distinction.
  4. Brand Statement - what do you do and who do you work with (e.g., I work with professional women of color seeking career advancement or transitioning into solo business. I show them how to develop a brand strategy for their career that connects them with their target audience & key influencers.)
  5. Unique position – what makes you different than anyone else who does this work (e.g., My strategy is based on a 60/40 combination of proven career management techniques and online brand expertise. I also have a powerhouse network of branding resources to help my clients implement the plan once the it is put on paper.)

That’s all for part one. Think about your answers in each area. If you work on this over the next week, you will have a great start to developing your brilliant personal  brand strategy.

About the Author: Tanya Smith of Be Promotable helps ambitious professional women develop a powerful personal brand strategy to be positioned for the career of their dreams. To get instant access to her free special report on how to surefire steps to be promotable stop by and visit http://www.bepromotable.com.

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